Robert Rolf Selmer Jr Obituary (1945 - 2026)

Robert Rolf Selmer Jr, affectionately known to all as Rolf, began his earthly journey on June 11, 1945, in Sherman, Texas, and peacefully concluded in Idaho on June 27, 2026, at the age of 81. He was a loving and supportive husband, father, grandfather, brother, and uncle. Rolf's adventurous spirit and ambitious nature propelled him through a life that was rich with experiences and filled with love. At the heart of Rolf's story was a great 49-year love story. He married his beloved wife, Diane Selmer, on May 7, 1977. Their love and companionship and unwavering support for each other were the core of a beautiful family that included their sons Erik (Serena) and Geoffory (Joanne). His cherished grandchildren, Jake, Joey, Jessica and Jennifer as well as his great-grandchildren Bella and Ava. Rolf's loving family also extended to his sisters Kathryn Denault, Kristin Cavallero, and Linda Newcomer, alongside the extended Tunheim and the Soiland families. He is also survived by his brother-in-law Gary Griswold, sister-in-law Rox Ann Kight, Geraldine Arce and Stephanie Gannon; nieces and nephews, Aaron and Joshua Mayo, Sabrina and Seth Griswold, Sara and Wesley Gannon, Ashley and Lindsay Denault, Linda Parker, and Matthew Cavallero. Rolf was predeceased by his parents, Robert and Elizabeth Selmer. Rolf answered the call of duty in June 1966, joining the United States Marine Corps. He served honorably for four years, achieving the rank of Sergeant (E-5). His distinguished military service included holding a Top-Secret Clearance (June 1, 1967), serving on Embassy Duty in Poland from 1968 to 1969, and receiving the National Defense Service Medal (June 6,1969) and the Good Conduct Ribbon. Rolf's professional civilian journey was as a salesman with Keyston Bros. An ambitious man, he worked tirelessly in the upholstery wholesale business for over 50 years, including his time in the Military. His unwavering commitment to his work led to his successful career until he retired in 2012. Rolf's adventurous spirit did not retire with him. Instead, it fueled him to truly live by the words of Maya Angelou: "My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style." And thrive, Rolf did. He found immense joy in bowling, golfing, exploring new places, and cruising the world with Diane. He deeply appreciated the peace and natural beauty of his residence in Eagle, Idaho. Rolf was a vibrant soul who brought energy, style, and heart to everything he did. In the quiet moments of reflection, we remember Rolf, not just for his accomplishments but for who he was; and the devotion to the people he loved. An adventurous soul with an ambitious spirit, a loving and supportive family man, an individual whose story is worthy of celebration. We invite you to share your memories and upload photos of Rolf to the memorial page, to help us remember and celebrate this remarkable man.